Ramblings

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Ultimately, if nothing else helps, consequences will ensue. This only happens after a person had enough warning ahead of time to change course, either through me telling them or by the obviously harmful nature of their action inherently. Consequences, again, are not meant to be pointed. I'm not a parent, I'm not raising children, it's not my responsibility nor goal to show people what's right or wrong through punishment, consequences are always defensive. Consequences can be, for example, the end of a friendship, refusal to talk to a person, me starting to dislike a person I previously liked¹⁾ or any other defensive action that insulates me from the damage that the problem in question would otherwise cause.

This should not be confused with any other aggression I might show. I can get aggressive, but aggression like that is not governed through the Standard Communication System.

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This distinction matters because I do I can dislike new people without going through the Standard Communication System with them. Me dislike a person I just now got acquainted with is not a “consequence” typically because I can dislike people for all kinds of reasons regardless of whether it has anything to do with me, whereas the Standard Communication System is in place to be nice to people who are directly affecting me.